My whinge

I dont often complain about things...I believe if you aren't happy, then you should do something about it. But what about when it is out of your control? Here is my drama...

I am partnered with a wonderful man, who pays through the nose for his two sons (from a previous marriage)in child support. He does this quite willingly, as he takes his responsibilities seriously. It is a large sum of money (how Child Support Agency think that this amount is reasonable is beyond me).

We have told CSA that there are three other children (my children) in the equation that we co-support. In essence, my partner supports two families; his sons from his previous marriage, and mine. Again, he does this quite happily.

CSA have said that it makes no difference that we have three other children that my partner helps support, as he is not LEGALLY responsible for them. Therefore, the exorbitant amount he is required to pay for his son's stands.

Now on the other hand, another Government agency (Centrelink)refuses to give me any money towards raising my children. I only work part-time, and if I were single then I would qualify. But here is the kicker...my income is added to what my PARTNER earns, and therefore I earn too much to get any benefits. How is it, that one Government agency says that my partner is not responsible financially for my children, but another Government agency states that he is?

I feel like we are screwed at both ends!